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If you
happened to be up before daybreak on Sunday morning,
strolling along the walking path on Riviera Drive in
Mission Bay, San Diego, you might have come across an
amazing site. In letters, larger than life,
the words "Will You Marry Me?", were carved into the sand.
Ben filled in the trenches of each 8' letter by scattering
the petals of 100 red roses. As the sun rose the in sky,
this patch of beach became illuminated
magically.
When
every detail on the beach below was perfect, Ben waited on
the balcony for Lauren. As she approached the door, she
immediately saw the letters spelling out the question of
her future... and then she turned to see the love of her
life on bended knee, holding out a treasure box containing
a vintage, early 1900's solitaireengagement
ring.
She said
"yes" ... and in the spring, a new Mr. and Mrs. Wilkerson
will begin their life together. There is joy and love in
the air and our hearts swell as we welcome bright sunlight
and rose petals into our world. Julie
Wilkerson Tears of
Joy Video
Fun Wedding
Proposals
Cedia, a
girlfriend of mine called and asked me to join her and her
husband David at the TECO Plaza which is located in the
City of Tampa on the Franklin Street Mall. This is a
pedestrian mall that is very busy during lunch time. I
arrived a little early and popped into The Nature Shop
which is a floral shop on the mall that two of my friends
own. It was funny Hector & Leland kept showing me all
this new stuff ushering around their shop. When it was time
to meet David & Ceida for lunch, I simply crossed the
street.
As we were sitting their
eating, I get picked up from my chair by my boyfriend and
carried outside. He carried me down this red carpet that
went all the way across the street in front of The Tampa
Theater which is next door to The Nature Shop. There was a
throne awaiting me at the other end as well as a violinist
and several large bouquets of Roses. Roy sits me down in
the chair, kneels and asks me to marry him. By this time a
large crowd had gathered and yelled out to hear my answer.
The marquee of theTampa Theatreread "Cindy will you marry
me, Love Roy".
This was all caught on tape
by friends in on the secret. The funny thing was that Roy
had planned to stash the carpet and the throne in The
Nature Shop while he parked his car, and since I was in the
store, Hector & Leland had to move me around the store
so the surprise was not ruined.
As I use to assist in booking
all the functions on the pedestrian mall this was even more
special to me, and truly something to remember.
I used
to drink. Ever since high school I thought it was cool –
breaking the rules like that. The more I could drink and
handle it, the cooler I thought I was. Increasing my
tolerance level became like a personal challenge to me. I
used to pride myself on not being a giggling, tipsy fool
like a rookie. Little did I know what I was doing to
myself? I managed to make it through school and become a
teacher, an award-winning teacher but the increased
drinking meant increased problems, days missed from work,
troubles with family, friends and the law. No good came out
of it. I met and married a man who also liked to drink and
we were like two peas in a pod… a fermenting pod. Our
lives became chaos: fighting, screaming, smashing, yelling,
total chaos. Nothing good comes from alcohol. The only
thing good that came out of that life was my beautiful
daughter.
If you
do not respect what you have, you lose it. I ended up
losing my dream job which I was so good at. With that
devastating loss, everything else went down the drain. I
ended getting arrested for DUI and going to jail. I lost my
daughter, car, home, and husband. Even our dog died when it
was hit by a car foraging for food because we were not
providing for it like we used to. I cried every night for
the first month. My will had gotten me to the worst place
in the world.
I was
going to be shipped off to rehab instead of prison.
Apparently the judge saw that I could be given one last
chance. I met girls in jail who were nice and through one I
wrote to her friend asking if he could take care of some
documents for me while I went away. I wrote a letter to him
that included my best jokes and apparently he was intrigued
because the first sentence in his firstletter to
mebegan,
“I feel compelled to write to you.” I was impressed that
compelled was part of his vocabulary so I wrote back to
him. We ended up sharing everything about each other. I
told him how I love burgers and that the only good burger
is a messy burger. I told him the TV shows I loved and what
ice cream flavors were my favorite. I told him about my mom
and dad and how they sent us to the best schools but I
chose wrongly and ended up there. We shared our pasts,
hurts, hopes, disappointments and joys. He asked to see a
picture and I refused. I said I wanted to just know his
heart and mind and I did not want to know the superficial.
But a more important reason was because of the incredible
stress I was under, my face was all broken out and looked
monstrous. I felt so ugly, but he said in one letter, “You
don’t know it yet, but you are going to be my lady.” I
started to open my heart up to him. He wrote to me
every single day without fail. Finally, he could take it no
more and said, “I have to meet you in person. THAT’S IT!” I
thought of my horribly bumpy, pimply face and said
dejectedly, “Okay, I will meet you in person.” That
night I got shipped out in the middle of the night to
rehab. They tell no one when you are being moved to another
jail, so it was at least a week before he received a letter
telling him I was hundreds of miles away.
We
continued to write. I found him to be intelligent,
charming, old-fashioned, chivalrous, funny, admirable and
sweet. I had fallen in love with him too. He ended up
driving around 400 miles to finally meet me in person. He
said I was the prettiest girl he had ever seen. He received
a peck on the cheek that visit. The next month he drove the
800 miles-round trip to get another peck on the cheek. I
knew I wasn’t the prettiest girl he had ever seen but it
sure felt good to know that he thought I was!
He stayed my pen pal for
months and was there when I got out. I came to the
town he lived in which is close but not too close to my
hometown and my old stomping grounds. One adage from
recovery is, “You’ve got to change your playground and your
playmates.” In this picturesque town I have met the most
incredibly inspiring spiritual women who are in recovery. I
have the neatest job with a wonderful boss. I ended up
completing the court-ordered requirements and went back to
court last November and was awarded a divorce and full
custody of my daughter on the same day! The day before
Thanksgiving no less! Getting her back completed the pie.
We live with our pet dogs and birds in a beautiful place on
the water which is perfectly fitting because he is a
captain and loves to fish. My best friend told me
when I was going to rehab, “You are going to get everything
you lost back and then some.” She was right. I don’t have
the wonderful career I lost but I figure I had to pay
somehow for the disrespectful life I led.
I
remember now how one night long ago, when the fighting
between my ex-husband and I drove me out of the house, I
looked up into the stars and wished that I could find a man
who did not have vices, was respectful and respectable, was
mature, responsible, Christian and loving. I had no idea
that God certainly was going to answer that prayer. I may
have gone through hell to get to heaven but I am in heaven
now and if that is what it took to get here, so be it. I
hope now that my story inspires others who have lost hope
(whether by their own hand or not) because God does answer
prayers and you can meet the man of your dreams. Today is
our anniversary… two weeks ago I became this wonderful
man’s wife. Technically, I can say that I met my dream man
in a women’s jail and that is certainly a testament to the
power of God. I met the man of my dreams where there were
no men! Mrs. Patricia
Hansen Port Isabel, TX Gladiator II
Adventures
The Love
Story of Glen and Irene
I flew
to Taiwan in the summer of 1990 to visit my natural family
(I was adopted at a young age by my Taiwanese aunt and
American uncle) and decided to spend the summer there since
I had just graduated from college.
Every
time I visit Taiwan, I make sure I attend the little church
on the mountain that I was baptized in as a child.
One morning in Sunday School class I noticed a guy with
long hair and a pony tail that reminded me of a young Tom
Cruise. He was in a nice suit and tie and came in
late and left early. I didn’t see him again until I
went into the main service where he was passing out church
bulletins. We started talking and I told him I was
from San Diego and had just graduated from California
Baptist College. He was surprised and told me that he
was also from San Diego and that two of his sisters
graduated from the same college. He introduced
himself as Glen and later sat next to me during the
service.
There
was a church bus that took you back down the mountain and
just as the bus was about to leave, Glen hopped on and
walked all the way to the back of the bus and sat down next
to me. We had a long conversation and I told him I
was really bored because all of my cousins were in school,
my siblings were at work, and I had no one to fill my days
with. I impulsively invited him to go to the beach
with me (my family lives in a fishing village). Not only
did he agree but he also invited me to MacDonald’s where he
“splurged” and treated me to lunch. Glen was teaching
English, saving money, and traveling Asia, so most of his
lunches were eaten at the preschool where he
taught. That was the beginning of our
three year relationship that carried into our lives back
into the States.
Glen and
I both decided to get our teaching credentials after
spending a year overseas teaching English. We
continued dating while we were in school and after
graduation, decided to part ways because “we were too
different” (his words). He told me he could never
marry me because I didn’t like his style of music and I
preferred to watch the news instead of read the
newspaper. He moved to San Francisco and I stayed in
Riverside (near L.A.) because that was where my college
friends were.
After
about five months of constant letters and daily calls, Glen
suggested that I drive up to San Francisco for a
Valentine’s Day visit. I responded with a, “Thanks,
but no thanks.” I was substitute teaching and trying
to get my foot in the door at the local elementary
schools. I told him I would visit him during Spring
Break. He was adamant that I visit on Valentine’s
weekend and wouldn’t relent until my roommate decided that
she would drive me up the weekend after
Valentine’s.
We had
planned to leave early Friday morning because Glen had made
reservations for dinner that evening. Unfortunately
my roommate decided to make an elaborate breakfast for her
boyfriend that morning and that got us on the road two
hours late. The drive through LA traffic was slow and
soon the weather turned for the worse and it began raining
really hard. We were caught in the middle of a fierce
storm and we were already late. That is when my
roommate decided (unbelievably) to make a detour to
Pleasanton to visit an old college roommate. Needless
to say, when I called Glen he was furious. He had already
changed the reservation time twice. This is when my
roommate told me that Glen was going to propose but she
didn’t like him very much. I told her there was no
way in the world he was going to propose because he
considered us incompatible.
When we
finally arrived at Glen’s San Francisco apartment, we
rushed out to a hip Chinese restaurant near Little
Italy. I had decided that if there was a miniscule
chance that Glen would propose, it would be during our
meal. Well, the romantic meal came and went and
nothing extraordinary happened.
Glen
took me on an after dinner walk through Chinatown and we
went in a big tourist shop so he could buy a bag of fortune
cookies for dessert. We then drove to a grocery store
to buy some champagne and “fancy” plastic cups. He
didn’t tell me where we were going. The evening was
shifting from romantic to mysterious.
We drove
across the Golden Gate Bridge and up the Marin Headlands to
a scenic overlook. We were going to get out and enjoy
the view of the City but the storm was roaring and the only
other vehicle on our perch was a TV station weather
van. Glen opened the bag of fortune cookies and I
reached in and chose one. As I split the cookie in
half, a diamond ring dropped out!! I was in
shock. He looked deeply into my eyes and it was as if
time had stopped. My mind was racing to register the
meaning of this; Glen tried to get on his knee in the car,
grabbed my hand and asked, “Irene, will you marry me?
I love you and I want to spend the rest of my life with
you.” So many things were going through my mind,
like, “I thought you said you were never going to marry me
because we’re different??” But in reality I was in
love with Glen and I had never met anyone in my life that
was quite as adventurous, exciting or crazy as him. I
said “yes.”
From
living in a tinystudio
apartment(and almost killing
each other with pillow fights the first three years), to
moving into our current large house (with an enormous yard
that we haven't a clue how to take care of), our love has
matured and withstood the test of time and distance.
Almost 18 years later, our marriage is still a whirlwind of
excitement, adventure, and uncertainty. We have two
beautiful children and have lived in San Francisco, San
Diego, and now Virginia. After working in schools for
over 12 years, we enrolled in Seminary thinking we were
going to East Asia (not the East Coast) after
graduation, but Glen has deployed (as a Marine Reservist)
to Djibouti, then Iraq, and now
Afghanistan.
Glen
won’t be back in time to celebrate our love for Valentine’s
Day, but we’ve learned over the last few years that absence
really does make the heart grow fonder so I know that when
we are back in each other’s arms our love will have grown
stronger than ever... and that the best is yet to
come! Irene Morris Carrollton,
VA
Holli-day
I He finished his last set of
pushups as he witnessed the sun lift the shadowy curtain of
night. The early morning sun stretched a golden blanket
across the streets of Bakersfield, California. Diamonds of
dew clung to blades of grass. A cat yawned as it awoke. The
noises were scattered. A rooster crowed his early
morning recital A dog barked to welcome the
day A child's laughter echoed, as
he opened his present And a young Rochard gazed out
the window.
He
marveled at the mountainous skyline; they didn't have
mountains back home in Texas. He was thinking about how far
he had come, and not just the two hour lay over in addition
to the three and a half hour plane flight. Ricocheting
flashbacks of buying the plane ticket, researching rings,
talking about it with his parents, building up the courage
to ask her parents for her hand in marriage, reading
countless proposal ideas, phone call after phone call,
finalizing her customized ring and long drive to pick it
up, plan after plan, the emotional roller coaster, the
"what if's", all the meticulous lies that had to be
strategically kept track of, all the times he longed to
tell her what was going to happen.... "MERRY CHRISTMAS!" The voice
broke Rochard's trance. He was greeted by Mr. Joe (his soon
to be fiancé's really cool church member) with a warm smile
and the breakfast of champions. Eggs and wheat
toast...... "Well, How ya holding up
bro?" "Man, I just can't believe
'its' FINALLY here!" said Rochard nervously. "You got this dude, i know
you got this!" Mr. Joe rebutted with
assurance.
These
words he had heard soo many times before, some how brought
him some tranquil. Their small parley was interrupted by
the sound of the door bell. Happiness peppered with
impatient eagerness permeated Rochard as he ran to the
door. It was his future Mother-in-law coming to pick him up
from this hiding place. She had been his accomplice for the
past nine months of planning and was just as excited as he
was about today. Rochard said his thank you's and good byes
to the Aloneis's and set out the door to embark upon this
uncharted territory. Ya see, this was no normal Christmas
day.today would be the ground breaking of the blue print
carefully constructed over three and a half years ago. This
Christmas was about stepping up to the plate.ordering the
#3 super sized instead of the happy meal..watching CSI
instead of Sponge Bob..wearingboxer
briefsinstead of pull
ups.
And this
is where the fairy tale begins.Mom Cheadle closed the tail
gate that would hide Rochard. Just before she closed it
completely, "you'll do fine honey, everything is going to
be just fine," she said with the cozy console that only a
mother could provide. The ride from the hiding place to
ground zero was a short one. But the [truck covering thingy
note to self, find out what this is called.] provided a
figurative hyperbolic time chamber for Rochard to seek the
Throne since he was only armed with his courage. He began
to pray for extra guidance, protection, and peace. The
truck stopped at the strategic location that would allow
him viewing capabilities. Two taps signaled that it was "go
time." Withcell
phonein
hand, flame ignited in his eyes, he proceeded to
carry out the last of his three phone
calls. Four years of knowing each
other and not one Christmas together, so he promised her
back in January that this years Christmas would be
different. After months and months of planning, and talking
about how much fun it would be, and what traditions they
could start, she got a tragic phone call late
November.
"Princess!" he said with apprehension,
"I've got some bad news..real long story short, I wont be
able to make it for Christmas." The words sung like a
solemn requiem to the tune of desolation. "..ba-but I can
make it up to you." Her response.a bone chilling, heart
broken silence that echoed through the chambers of his
soul..
To her,
the news came with the impact of a train crash, and the
devastation of a hurricane. Fighting back a smile, Rochard
began to basque in the excellence of his insidious plan.
Weeks later, through another phone call, he explained that
he felt horrible about the whole situation, and at least
wanted her to have her gift on Christmas day. Sharp as a
fox, he began to cunningly tell her about the phone
delivery confirmation applied to the shipping fees, and how
he would receive a call when her gift was delivered, and in
turn, be able to call her when the gift was outside. In the
bed of the truck, Rochard was faced with one last phone
call. To tell her that her Christmas present had
arrived!
II "YEEEEAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!" was
the sweet sound of felicity that poured out of Holli's
heart, when she found out that her gift had come. She
stopped her everything, and dashed to the door. As she went
out side, the most beautifully majestic Percheron Draft
Horses stood at attention under the command of horse
whisper, Mr. Bert. There ebony hide sparkled in the
sunlight. There well groomed hair, blew copiously in the
wind. They were attached to an eminent aristocratic
Vis-à-Vis carriage from the early 1800's, which was mounted
by master coachmen, Mrs. Marry Ann. An eloquently ordinate
scene that was indubitably fit for Princess
Holli.
In awe,
she proceeded out towards the onyx horses that towered over
her model-esque body. With phone plastered to her ear
"Rochard.is this for mee??" she asked as delight danced in
her eyes. "Yes My Flower! It is! I love you!" He looked on
from the truck with a tender twinkle of anticipation as she
got in the carriage and rode off into the
distance.
The
phone call ended, as two more taps came to side of the
truck. He busted out the back of the truck like a SWAT team
on steroids. Ribbon, tape, scissors, wrapping paper, and a
Giant box accompanied him. He had but a little window of
time to make moves, for in the next 15 minutes, Rochard
would be an engaged man. A snip snip here, and a cut, tape
there; Rochard and Holli's parents had fully assembled the
box on the front porch that would change there life's
forever. Both apprehensive and
compelled, he nodded his head towards Mr. Bert to continue
on with the plans. The plan went a little like
this:
Princess
Holli is out on the horse ride, which allows Rochard time
to set up. Mr. Bert calls his associate, Mrs. Marry Ann,
and gives her the signal. Mrs. Marry Ann tells the Princess
that one of the horses got loose back at the ranch and she
needs to drop Holli back at her house, and go take care the
horse issue. She continues on to say that she would come
back in the evening to finish the ride. Mr. Bert then signals back to
Rochard to move on to part F of the plan. Violent
butterflies began assaulting his stomach. Angry and
possessed, they purposed to sabotage. With every step, his
entrails churned in a frenzy. "I told you, you will do
fine!" Mom Cheadle said, almost as if she could see the
butterflies demolition blue prints radiating from his
countenance, "You will do fine!" And with that, Rochard,
with the help of Pop Cheadle, got into the
box.
Just
then, the ceremonious stride of the horses was heard in the
distance. Family and friends filled the drive way and
poured into the street to see the Princess, and secretly
take there positions. Cameras flashed as royalty stepped
down from the carriage. Her spot light was humbled because
deep down inside, she was overwhelmed with both joy and
sorrow. Oh how she longed to be held in the haven of his
arms. Inside emotions were mighty as a river and the dam
was beginning to crack. Pausing, to gather her
emotional state, she spotted the box, big as a stove,
wrapped in bright red wrapping paper that screamed MERRY
CHRISTMAS! with a pleasant bow on top. The Princess knew
that this was her other gift. Euphoria began to rapture her
towards the box. She had never received a gift this big
before..in more ways than one.
III Quarantined from the outside
world, he had time to ponder. He thought about the
transformation from "me" to "we".he thought of her smile,
beautiful as the sun set on the ocean. With pastel yellows,
tropical oranges, Indian reds, and other hues of love
dancing in the dying day. He thought about never wanting to
sleep because reality was better than some dream. His
raging, his aching, his burning passion for her, was
interrupted by the sound of her foot steps. Only seconds remain..10 - His
heart went into the final climatic overture in the key of
fervor. 9 - 8 - 7 His adrenal gland kicked into hyper drive
cascading adrenaline to the farthest corners of his body 6
- 5 - 4 - 3 her foot steps stopped, and the box began to
show signs of opening 2 - 1 now at the point of no return,
Rochard escaped his solitary confinement with every ounce
of might screaming
"SURRRPPPPRISSSSEEEEE!!!!!!"
Things
began to move in slow motion for Holli as an unquenchable
look in her eyes watched dark chocolate and rippling biceps
emerged from the box. She was initially awe struck, as her
cerebral cortex couldn't efficiently process what her optic
fibers exclaimed. Logic and intuitive calculations were at
a stand still. Reality based thinking impregnated
fantasy-oriented thought to conceive this very moment. As
things began to speed up, she resisted all effort to hide
her joy. There hearts beat in perfect
cadence as they embraced. A warmth lingered on their skin,
arousing a sensually incomprehensible feeling that endorsed
this encounter. The warmth commenced an almost nonexistent
touch that excited the nerve-rich erogenous tissues in
there bodies. Faint whispers of "sweet nothings" echoed as
Rochard pleasurably tickled her auditory system sending
sensational vibrations that registered
as:
Princess, who says you have to die and go
to Heaven to see an angel? I have never known such a
beautiful and flawless emotional exhilaration as this love
you give to me. You make living liveable, and happiness
happy. For the longest time I've had a thirst deep inside
to be understood and loved for whom I am. I've longed for
some one to share life's ups and downs with; then you
walked in, and quenched my thirst! You're a friend when I
need companionship or just simple understanding. You are my
love when I need tenderness and passion. I long for the day
that I can submit to my dreams: reaching for you, feeling
the warmth of your body near, listening to the gentleness
in your breath, and ...knowing that my dream is right by my
side.
Pop
Cheadle looked on with a gleam in his eye and a grin on his
lips - as if he were watching you unwrap the birthday
present he just gave you. Excitement faded to anticipation
from the crowd as Rochard ungrafted his body from hers and
slowly began his descent to one knee. Obsessed by love, or
just nervously excited, Holli began to shake as her eyes
blurred. A tear rolled down her cheek. Another soon
followed, then another. Then the dam broke. The trees were
silent. Animals stood still as they
witnessed amorous adoration. The wind ceased
stirring. The moon tilted ever so
slightly in an effort not to miss this
occasion.
Her
tears were moving. His smile stirring. Then, with
infallible longing in his eye, he delicately asked,
"Holli...will you marry me?" as he pulled out his
mesmerizing, sparkling investment.
"Yes!"
Trumpets
sounded and all nature rejoiced! Stars raced through the
blackness. The moon tilted backwards and rocked in sweet
satisfaction. Bears danced, birds hugged. The wind whistled
as leaves applauded. Husbands and wife's held hands. And
those looking on tingled with devout sentiment. The two
wept as they embraced for the first time, all over again.
For a forever they stood at the front porch intertwined as
one. Blissful serenity pulsated this heart stopping event.
Cheers erupted from the crowd as a penetrating enchantment
over took them. Pop Cheadle's tears and Mom Cheadle's
stretched smile christened the engagement master
piece. Before getting into the
carriage, the two stood together..smiling for pictures,
like they were the only two kids in class that knew the
answer to the teacher's question. They climbed in the
carriage and rode off in to the distance, Happily Ever After The End Reginald Robinson FORT
WORTH-TX
Do
I confess after 28 years! Knowing the man for 30
years! Love at first site...oops
sight...I am on the internet too Much ...lol! I saw Assaf for the first time in
a shopping mall...I was shopping did not know when I set out in
the morning that it would turn into a hunting
trip.
I was
looking in a shop window when ... I saw the refection on the
most magnificent smile, I had ever seen.
Turned
around ...hoping ...he was smiling at someone and that someone
was not me! Boy oh Boy...I had to do
something about it.
A friend of
mine noticed my interest...to say the least. I went home and casually
announced to my flabbergasted Mom that "I had met the man that
I was going to marry."
How does a
girl with the same track record as the Virgin Mary go about
making a plan. Other girls would have gotten a phone number and
picked up the phone...not me. I had to remain the as if ...he
were the pursuer...if not it would not have been proper for
me!
I waited
coyly hoping that someone would give the man a nudge, in the
right direction. We all know which direction that
was?
Oh, I forgot
to tell you how I described my dream man, to my Mom. I said
that he had an amazing smile with huge dimples, big eyes as
black as coal and eyebrows that perfectly enhanced his eyes.
You know when you buy a car you talk about head lights and also
the tail ones. I did mention that he had an incredibly cute
tush.
All the
years my Mom chooses to stick to the tush story and forgets to
mention the eyes! Maybe more than one lady in our family has an
eye for the tush.
Now to get
to the nitty gritty. The day eventually arrived when a friend
of my friend asked "What kind of man does Zee like?" My friend
answered that she saw him and kind of
flipped!
So she was
asked why I did not phone him. She was told that I am a lady,
conservative and well brought up and that is something that I
would not do.
My friend
was given the task to make the introduction and close the
deal. Assaf now had all the other
equipment needed to go after me. My name and number! Ziona Etzion Modi'in-Israel
A Flicker
of Light
When a
flicker of light from a long time ago, Strengthens and brightens and
continues to grow,
Then the
winds of uncertainty make it flutter and fail, Who was to know that love is so
frail?
When
struggle and fear bring love to the brink, It seems like our God tells us to
think,
To shelter
our love from the fierce wintry blow, And gather our offsprings and
never let go.
To hold them
and love them and never forget, To forestall a choice we'll
always regret.
When that
flicker of light from a long time ago, Sputters and stammers, yet
continues to glow,
We know in
our hearts that our love is alive, And we'll do anything it takes to
make it survive. Victor
Errante Saint
Charles, Missouri
He Said
Yes
I met a
great guy but he lived in a different city. We dated for only a
little while. Although there were a few roadblocks, we grew to
love each other. We claimed ourselves boyfriend and girlfriend
just after a week. We talked on the phone for hours at night. I
knew that I loved him and he loved me too. We did everything
together. So I decided to take the big plunge. We talked about
getting married but never really said when. We both knew we
wanted to, so I set out to find a ring. I decided that I was
going to ask him.
I invited
him to a nice restaurant on the river. After we placed our
order, I excused myself to go talk to the waitresses. I talked
to them around the corner so he couldn't see. I told the ladies
I was getting engaged today. They said how in the world would
you know. I said "I'm asking him" Their mouths were wide open.
I asked them to put the ring within a napkin and deliver it to
the table when I gave the signal.
Once I was
seated at the table, I started talking about the future. We
talked about loving each other,etc and then I gave the
signal.
As soon as
the waitress reached the table he looked. He said "I didn't
order anything" and she placed the small plate down and left.
He opened the napkin and found the ring. I said "Will you marry me." He
sat there with his mouth wide open looking at me. He tried on
the ring. It fit of course because I had already got his size
information without him knowing. I said "ahem, your answer?" He
said "Oh my God, you are right" Yes!
We will
be married 4 years this
July.
Kris Peoples Trotwood, Ohio
I SAW THE
LOVE LIGHT SHINING!
I was
nervous as could be. I could not believe my boss Helen; the
head of Nursing was trying to fix me up with one of her sons!
She liked me…I knew that much and she kept saying I needed a
good man and she had one in mind at home to introduce me to. I
thought to myself…”why not?” So I made plans to go to her house
and meet “Bob”. Now Bob was fun as could be and not bad
looking. We enjoyed many of the same things and well…. I really
liked hanging out with him. He was after all…. a fun person and
we laughed a lot...but I knew deep down my feelings for him
were platonic. Then there was “Jake”. Jake was older than Bob
and not my cup of tea at all. He too was handsome…but what a
player! I could tell he liked me and made it really obvious…but
as I said…he was a player!
Sitting on
the front porch of Helen’s house I was laughing and joking with
Bob and suddenly something caught my attention out of the
corner of my eye. I looked down the old road in front of the
house and saw someone pushing a Harley motorcycle. He was
dressed in leather and looked like a rebel! He had obviously
been in an accident as he had blood on his face and pushing the
disable motorbike. I was intrigued immediately! I asked Helen…
“Who is that?” And she replied….”Oh never mind who that is”.
OK, so now I was up for the challenge…and it was soon apparent
that the mysterious biker was Helen’s oldest son Clarence. I
took one look at him and instantly had to meet him! He was so
handsome and someone who looked like he went against the flow!
Ha ha… it was no time at all before he was asking who I was.
Helen wasn’t being very helpful, as she wanted me to click with
Bob. Well, as it turned out, Clarence did a little
investigating of his own and received the information regarding
who I was and that I worked at the hospital for his mother. He
was going to give Bob a little competition!
I was at the
hospital doing my daily list of chores, which included mopping
the hall when I heard “Pssst”… I looked around and saw no one.
Again I heard “Pssst”. Then I saw the culprit…it was Clarence!
He was trying to get my attention. “When do you get off duty?”
he asked. I just grinned and asked him “What business is it of
yours?”. Then he said,”I will be outside waiting for you to
give you a ride home”. I just smiled and told him his mother
would be very upset if she knew he was there. I admit it was
exciting as he was just so darn cute and I knew right away I
wanted a ride from him. “I can’t ride home with you because I
am wearing a dress”. He looked at me and rolled his eyes and
then said, “OK, fine. I will be here tomorrow to give you a
ride, so wear pants under your uniform”. I just hushed him and
told him to go.
The next day
came and again I was working, doing my chores and knew he would
probably not show anyway. Well, I was wrong…there he was,
standing around the corner asking me if I was ready for a ride.
I just smiled and told him to wait outside. After work I went
outside and there he was sitting on his motorcycle waiting for
me. My heart was pounding like it had never pounded before
because I knew when I sat on that bike I would have to put my
arms around him to hold on. He was so handsome and I felt like
I was almost breaking the law in going with him! Well, he gave
me a ride home all right…in fact he was there every night I
worked to give me a ride home for weeks!
Weeks later,
I was at work and I was mopping the floor. I had been wearing
jeans under my nursing uniform for weeks now so I could ride on
the motorcycle after work with Clarence. Anyway, I was mopping
and as I was going back and forth with the mop one of my pant
legs rolled down and Helen saw it. She stood there and said,
“You are riding home with Clarence aren’t you?” I immediately
thought…I am in so much trouble! Then she said she knew she was
fighting a losing battle. I was just glad it was all out in the
open now. I had already fallen head over heels with him and I
wanted everyone to know about it!
My mother
instantly hated him and thought he was just a rebel. She wasn’t
interested in how he truly was and that he had a heart of gold
and that he loved me like I never imagined being loved! Helen
became the mother I always wanted and I truly felt loved by
her!
So, the
story went on…. we married when I was 21 years old (1950)
because I had to wait until I was of legal age. We had four
boys, 1 girl together and even lost one in a miscarriage. Later
in life we raised Bob’s three kids after his wife died in
acar
accidentand he
was in the Navy. Clarence was everything I always knew he would
and could be. I got sick with Hodgkin’s disease when I was only
33 years old. He was 34 at the time. I never really recovered
from being sick. I was sick until the day I died in 1992…we
were married almost 42 years. Clarence lost his battle with
cancer 1 year and four days after me. We are together again and
holding one another tight! It was a love story that I could
only dream of…maybe not your typical one…but a real love story
for me. He stayed faithful, loving and held me when I was sick,
cared for our children when I could not and to me, he was the
man of my dreams. He might have looked rough the first day I
saw him…but I saw the love light shining within him and through
it all I have no regrets in taking that first motorcycle
ride! Written by my
daughter Kay May March 10, 2009 San Diego,
CA
Bar
Hopping
It all began in the Fall of 1978.
My best friend and I went to the local college pub for a night
of dancing and fun. When we arrived there, she ran into a
million people she knew. You see, she was a model and every guy
had his eye on her. Eventually, she introduced me to one of her
minions. It was her way of "getting rid" of him!! We had a
drink together and continued to see each other for about two
weeks. At that point we both agreed this was going nowhere and
parted ways.
Jump ahead a couple of
relationships & three years later. Same friend and I go out
dancing to yet another bar and guess who's there. I had already
walked up to the bar to talk to bar tender, who was a friend,
when I heard my friend's voice yell "NEIL!". Of course, I'm
thinking no way. Can't possibly be the same guy. OK so I was
wrong. My friend drags me over & asks Neil if he remembers
me. He says yes. We talk throughout the night and he asks for
my phone number. I tell him he won't call, but sure. The next
night he called and we went out to yet another club where his
friend's band was playing. We continued to date. His best
friend told me that Neil never had a girlfriend more than 2
months at a time. This was at the 6 month point. I wasn't sure
to be happy or what!!
We dated for 3 years and on March
10, 1984, Neil gave me anengagement ring. Our
friends said it would never last given Neil's track record for
relationships. We showed them how wrong they were.
While the clubs we met in and met
at are long gone, our marriage is still as strong as ever. We
have two beautiful children and we'll been celebrating 24 years
this July. Dorinda Duclos Wayne, NJ
Only
Love
Love can sometimes be fresh.
Love can sometimes be new.
Love can sometimes make you happy.
And sometimes make you blue.
Love is the light that radiates
from your eyes.
Love is your image floating in the skies.
Love is true.
And darling, the only love for me is you.
Lamar Cole
Poplar Bluff, Mo
The Eyes That
Sparkle
You look into my eyes and say
they sparkle like the stars high in the sky. As we stand
beneath, we hold each other and begin to sigh.
Your eyes seductively seduce my
eyes, and the tears slowly trickle down my face; following each
other one by one creating a flowing river.
I shiver as you place your hands
on my face and with your thumb you gently absorb each tear as
you paint a beautiful picture while staring into my
eyes.
My eyes slowly close to stop the
tears for a moment as I feel you really care. You begin to
slowly brush my hair away from my face as you just stare with
happiness.
You take your finger and trace
the tears as you reach down to my chin tilting it facing the
sky. My face glowing as the sun appears. The rays from a far
start to dry the picture you so proudly drew.
As we are looking above, the sky
starts turning blue as we inhale the morning dew.
We embrace the moment and the
feeling we shared as all the stars vanish from the sky and stay
forever twinkling in my eyes.
Stacy Perez
Hanover Park. IL
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